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Anxiety in Men: Recognizing the Unseen Burden

In today's era, men shoulder a multitude of responsibilities. The shift to remote work has increased their presence in family life but also brought added stress and anxiety. This article delves into the impact of anxiety on men's lives and how to recognize and address it.

Normal vs. Problematic Anxiety: Feeling anxious before a marriage proposal or a job interview is common and within the bounds of normal anxiety. However, when anxiety strikes a man on his way back home, causing unwarranted worries about job security, it becomes a problem. This crippling anxiety can disrupt everyday life and needs attention.

Anxiety Statistics: Research from the National Comorbidity Study Replication reveals that anxiety affects a substantial portion of adults in the US, with 14.3% being men. Both men and women grapple with anxiety, but men often hesitate to seek help or discuss it with family, friends, or therapists.

Symptoms of Anxiety in Men: Men experience anxiety for various reasons, making it difficult for them to stop worrying and hampering their daily activities. Common symptoms of anxiety in men include:

Physical Symptoms Of Anxiety:

  • A pounding or racing heart

  • Excessive sweating

  • Muscle tension

  • Restlessness or agitation2

  • Dizziness and vertigo

  • Shortness of breath or choking sensations

  • Insomnia

  • Panic attacks

Emotional Symptoms of Anxiety:

  • Frequent worrying about potential issues

  • Feelings of dread

  • Concentration problems

  • Avoidance of certain situations

  • Catastrophic thinking

  • Irritability or edginess

  • Being overly vigilant toward danger

  • Absentmindedness

  • Fear of losing control

Apart from these symptoms, anxiety can lead to ongoing feelings of worry, fear, and impending doom, severely affecting one's ability to work, maintain relationships, and get a good night's sleep.

Causes of Anxiety in Men

The specific causes of anxiety in men vary, but they can be triggered by stress related to work, family, relationships, or traumatic life experiences. Here are a few possible causes of anxiety in men:

  1. Work-related Stress: Pressures at the workplace, job security, long hours, and high expectations can lead to anxiety.

  2. Financial Worries: Concerns about money, debt, or financial stability can be a significant source of anxiety.

  3. Relationship Issues: Problems in personal relationships, such as conflicts with a partner or family, can trigger anxiety.

  4. Traumatic Experiences: Past traumatic events, including accidents, abuse, or combat, may lead to anxiety disorders.

  5. Health Concerns: Serious illnesses or chronic health conditions can contribute to anxiety in men.

  6. Social Expectations: Societal stereotypes and expectations about masculinity may create pressure and anxiety.

  7. Substance Abuse: Alcohol or drug dependence can exacerbate anxiety disorders.

  8. Hormonal Changes: Hormonal imbalances, such as low testosterone, may also play a role in anxiety.

  9. Genetic Predisposition: A family history of anxiety disorders can increase the likelihood of experiencing anxiety.

It's important to recognize that anxiety can stem from a combination of these factors, and individuals may experience anxiety differently. Seek professional help when needed to address and manage anxiety effectively.

Treatment for Anxiety in Men

Anxiety is a treatable (though not curable) mental health disorder. No man should suffer alone in silence. Seeking a therapist's help is a crucial first step in the healing process. They can understand your mental health issues and guide you.

Incorporating self-care practices can complement professional help. Consider engaging in hobbies, meditation, "me time," and journaling to cope with anxiety. Sharing your feelings with a close friend is also advisable.

While a doctor may suggest medications, lifestyle changes are essential. Avoid turning to alcohol or drugs and instead focus on regular exercise, a balanced diet, and good sleep.


Society often encourages men to "man up" and suppress their emotions, but this can lead to severe mental health issues. Anxiety doesn't discriminate; it can affect even the strongest of men. If you're battling anxiety, remember that you're not alone. Seek help, and you can overcome your personal struggle.


Written by: Deepti Dogra

Edited by: Aniket Joshi

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